Rough times.. What to do?
Posted: Saturday, December 31, 2011
by Michael Moody
I like to tell myself that everything happens for a reason, but I know that it does not always work that way.
Sometimes you have to make things happen the way you want them to happen. How do you know if I'm making the right decesion? How do I know if this is what's best for the both of us?
Unhappy.. Such a strongly used word these days. If your not unhappy with the one you love and your unhappy with your homelife... What do you do? Do you wade it out and see what happens... Do you leave the one you love to focus on making your homelife more happy? Do you tell your loved one that everything will be okay and you want them to stick by your side untill everything gets better?
Should I stay or should I go? A fresh start in another state with new people and the opportunitiy to become apart of a brand new church and be there from the begening. New people, new job, A brand new start? How do I know what the right decesion is? Leaving my family, friends, job and everything I have built here to have a fresh start? Is a fresh start really what is needed, or is it simply just a good opportunity?
All these questions and still don't know what to do or what to say or if I will ever decide on the right things. One day one day everything will be okay.
So if you really think about it does everything really happen for a reason?
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Top-level comments on this article: (1 total)You know, those are all great questions to ask yourself. But it's always important to also think about what part you yourself play in the overall picture. Do you also contribute to the unrest, the arguing, the second thoughts. Don't just ask the questions. Determine some answers. If you are not that demonstrative to the other person or persons, if you are a quiet one, do you expect the others to guess what you are thinking. Do you express yourself? Do you say what's wrong. Don't expect others to automatically know what's on your mind. Sometimes it's better to communicate what's going on. Finally, I always say that what bothers us the most, over time, are the little things. Always those little nagging things that bug us. Try open communication. If everything then still goes south, you know some answers pretty quickly.Thank your for your kind words of wisdom, very helpful!
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